At the moment, I’m in the middle of a miscarriage. This is quite honestly the most heartbreaking time of my life. There’s nothing anyone can do. Our baby had already passed away when we went for our ultrasound. At the moment I’m experiencing cramping, and spotting. It gets worse by the day, which in this case is a good thing. As much as my heart aches for the loss of this child, I dread hearing a doctor say that it won’t happen naturally and I have to undergo a D&C. As I grieve the loss of our child, I’d like to share some beautiful memories of my brief pregnancy with you. Thank you for sharing this experience with me.
The day we learned we were pregnant…
It was a Wednesday, the dreaded and blessed peak plus 17, the day that we NaPro ladies wait for. It had been 17 days since my identified peak day and despite a few hours of what could have been implantation bleeding, followed by days of very light brown spotting, I had not experienced a period. My husband, Frank woke me at 5AM, the time he usually wakes for work. He was aware of what day it was and wanted to be there when I took the test. I tested without expectation. We’d gotten countless negatives in the past and even once good old AF decided to show up mid test taking. I tested and I waited. When I saw that faint blue line make the plus sign on the test I was in heaven. We had done we had successfully conceived, we were going to be parents!
I ran into our bedroom and said, “Congratulations Daddy, it’s positive!” We were so happy! NaProTechnology had worked! My body was healthy enough to conceive naturally. God had answered our prayers and blessed us with a child! I was aware the test would fade at some point, and I wanted to preserve that moment forever, so I snapped a quick pic before I tossed it.
Next, I needed to call Dr. Carpentier, but since it was 5:30 in the morning, I thought best to call once his office opened. I couldn’t go back to sleep, I was so excited. I stayed awake in a state of bliss until about 7:00 when I drifted off. I woke again at about 9:00 thinking it was a good time to call Dr. C. As I got up and dragged myself out of bed, the phone rang; it was Dr. C calling with the results of my peak plus 7 blood work.
I was amazed that he called me at the very moment I intended to call him. He had just received the results of my peak plus seven blood work, in his words: “Like 12 seconds ago”. I wanted to hear the results, but I couldn’t hold my joy any longer. I blurted out: “I’m so glad you called. I was just getting ready to call you because it’s peak plus seventeen, I tested this morning and I’m pregnant!” He responded “YOU GO GIRL! Can you get to my office today? We’ve got a lot to talk about!”
Even though it was a Wednesday and his office closed at noon, he was willing to wait till I arrived. I got dressed, fed the furbabies, packed up my chart, prenatal vitamins, and hit the highway to make the 90 minute drive up to his office. This was really happening! My leave of absence had paid off! I was pregnant and blessed to have an amazing doctor who would do everything he could to support our pregnancy from the moment we got a positive test until delivery.